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Premium Polarity Coaching
with Kevin Lourd
Premium polarity coaching for individuals and couples. Energy-based and trauma-informed.
From $100/hour
Trauma-informed · Energy-based · Risk-aware
The Approach
Analytical precision. Zero judgment.
Kevin's greatest strength is his ability to listen without judgment. No matter what you bring to the session — your fears, your patterns, your mistakes — Kevin holds the space with complete acceptance. This is what allows you to be fully honest, and honesty is where real change begins.
His second gift: he sees the positive in everything. Where you see failure, Kevin sees signal. Where you see a problem, he sees a polarity that can be restored. This reframe is often the turning point for clients who arrive feeling stuck.
But what truly sets Kevin apart is his conceptualization ability. He deciphers and decomposes relationship dynamics along the masculine-feminine axis, breaking down the problem into sub-components to identify exactly where polarities have inverted. From there, he builds a prioritized work plan — concrete, pragmatic, with results you can measure immediately.
Over a decade of experience building conscious communities, Right Use of Power practitioner, grounded in restorative justice.
What makes Kevin different
Four qualities you won't find elsewhere
Non-Judgmental Listening
Kevin creates a space where you can share anything — no filter, no performance. His complete absence of judgment is what allows clients to access the truth they've been avoiding.
Sees the Positive in Everything
Where others see dysfunction, Kevin sees data. Every pattern, every conflict, every stuck point contains the seed of its own solution. This perspective shift alone transforms how clients see their relationships.
Right Use of Power
Trained in Right Use of Power and restorative justice, Kevin models the communication that actually builds intimacy. He doesn't just teach it — he demonstrates it in every interaction, giving you a lived experience of what ethical, conscious communication feels like.
Analytical Decomposition
Kevin breaks your dynamic into components along the masculine-feminine axis. He pinpoints where polarities have inverted, then builds a prioritized action plan with concrete steps and measurable results — not vague advice.
1,000+
sex-positive community members
100+
sexuality workshops & retreats facilitated
35+
years in conscious community
Certified Trauma-Informed Care Practitioner
Formal certification in creating safety within intimate and group settings.
Certified Trauma-Informed Tantra Practitioner
Trained to hold deep somatic and energetic work with awareness of trauma responses.
Right Use of Power Practitioner
Ethics and power dynamics in facilitation and coaching relationships.
Certified Sacred Whore Practitioner
Week-long intensive practitioner training in Berlin on spiritual, sexual, shamanic spaceholding.
ISTA — International School of Temple Arts
Spiritual Sexual Shamanism. Level 1, Level 2, Level 2 assistant, and practitioner program.
Restorative Justice Practitioner
Two separate trainings in conflict resolution and community repair. Certification program.
Shibari Instructor
Taught rope bondage workshops across festivals and private events for years.
Erotic Hypnosis Practitioner & Facilitator
3 years of active practice; facilitated workshops introducing others to the modality.
Consent Practitioner, Writer, Facilitator, Thinker
Designed and led consent workshops at festivals including Hedone (Berlin).
Vipassana & Buddhist Practice
Buddhist upbringing from age 3. Daily 1-hour meditation practice sustained over 2 years. Vipassana, Hridaya retreats.
The way a man penetrates the world should be the same way he penetrates his woman.
David Deida
Who this is for
Coaching for every stage of the polarity journey
For Women
Feminine Leadership
Develop your feminine power in intimacy. Work with Kevin to lead from openness, not control. Align your energy so the right kind of masculine attention shows up naturally.
- Energetic alignment and embodied feminine presence
- Leading from softness — without losing yourself
- Understanding what draws masculine energy toward you
For Men
Masculine Leadership
Become the grounded masculine presence your partner (or future partner) actually responds to. Work with Kevin to learn what to do, what NOT to do, and why most “nice guy” strategies kill attraction.
- Grounded masculine presence — not performance
- What to do and what NOT to do with feminine energy
- Leading with direction, depth, and awareness
For Singles
Attract Through Polarity
Stop repeating the same patterns. Whether you lead with masculine or feminine energy, Kevin can help you build stronger polarity — and stronger attraction. Become magnetic by becoming more yourself.
- Identify your natural polarity and amplify it
- Break the patterns that keep attracting the wrong people
- Show up as someone worth choosing
For Couples
Polarity Assessment & Realignment
Where does each partner sit on the polarity spectrum? What collapsed? Kevin provides a structured assessment of your dynamic, followed by clear guidance for both partners.
- Assessment of your current polarity dynamic
- Clarity on what shifted and why desire faded
- Both partners supported in their respective growth
How it works
Simple. Intentional. Confidential.
01
Discovery Call
Free 1-hour discovery call. We discuss your situation and whether coaching is the right fit. No pressure, no pitch.
02
Coaching Sessions
1-on-1 sessions with Kevin over video call. We work with your specific dynamic — energy-based, trauma-informed, and tailored to you.
03
Integration
Between sessions, you apply what we explored. Real change happens in real life, not in theory.
Investment
Pricing clarity
From $100/hour
Every engagement starts with a free 1-hour discovery call.
Packages available for ongoing work.
All conversations are confidential. Pricing details discussed during your discovery call.
Ready to start?
Book a free discovery call with Kevin. 1 hour, no commitment.
All conversations are confidential.